It seem that my best therapeutic seems to be this blog. It
really is helping me to get the feelings out while I deal with this crap in my
life right now.
Sunday I was faced with a big decision. I needed to decide if I was going to stay
home and mope around or travel down the state for some business meetings that I
have had scheduled for several months.
While being alone in the car for several hours didn’t sound like the
best idea, I decided it would be better for me to get on with my life. Either way, whether I am at home or at work,
I am going to be sad, I might as well get my job done while I am at it.
As expected the trip was not exactly the best idea. I’m sure it is my mind playing tricks on me,
but yesterday was cruel. I mean the constant
reminders of my lack of pregnancy would not let up. I was just trying to enjoy listening to some
music on Pandora when every single fucking commercial that came on during the
breaks was “We’d like to take a moment to share real pregnancy stories….”
Seriously. The worst thing about
these “commercials” were that they were for the company that I work for!!! I seriously need to talk to someone in
marketing. I mean have they ever even
thought about how these commercials can come across to people that are
childless, or going through every fertility problem known to man? I seriously wanted to go and slam my car into
one of their buildings. I had to mute my
volume in my car FIVE times to avoid
the same horrible commercial over and over again. If it wasn’t the overly cheerful pregnant
mother on my radio it was the sheep in the fields.
I spent the majority of my day driving through farmlands and canyons, which should be relaxing, but instead I have to see every earthly creature with their adorable brand new babies. I had to laugh because I was so ridiculously pissed off at the sheep. Who gets mad at sheep? All I could think was, I bet the sheep never deal with infertility! How would it be? Their whole purpose in this life is to eat, get knocked up, get shaved or eaten and die. No infertility problems for them. Is my life really that sad right now that I am jealous of the sheep?
Let's highlight the other reminders of my trip that made me want to punch something:
I spent the majority of my day driving through farmlands and canyons, which should be relaxing, but instead I have to see every earthly creature with their adorable brand new babies. I had to laugh because I was so ridiculously pissed off at the sheep. Who gets mad at sheep? All I could think was, I bet the sheep never deal with infertility! How would it be? Their whole purpose in this life is to eat, get knocked up, get shaved or eaten and die. No infertility problems for them. Is my life really that sad right now that I am jealous of the sheep?
Let's highlight the other reminders of my trip that made me want to punch something:
- When I finally get to the clinic that I am going to check in on a car pulls into the stall next to mine. Out walks a woman and goes to the back door to get out her infant carrier carseat.
- When talking to one of the employees that I was meeting with, she mentioned that the other tech was pregnant and needed to order a dosimetery badge for the pregnancy (I work in Radiology).
- When I get to another one of my clinics the manager that I haven't seen in about a year waddles over to me. She is extremely pregnant and just can "barely go on" any longer. The poor thing.
- One of the clinic managers that I talked to went on an on that it is a good thing that they "waited" before they got married because they wouldn't be able to hide it because she is so fertile. Seriously what is wrong with people?